10 Ways to Kill Your Church

1) A Jammin Bell Choir!

2) Lot's of Committees!

3) Allow anyone with a heart for God to sing a special!

4) When you pray for people try to push them over!

5) Have a 2 hour service with no order, just allow the "spirit to move".

6) No greeters, who needs 'em we all know each other!

7) A "not-a-people-person" type pastor.

8) Vote on everything, even when moving the flower pot in foyer 2 inches ... cuz that's where it's always been!

9) Double-breasted Suits and patent-leather shoes required!

10) Open Mic Sundays!

Sarcasm intended! :)

2011 Hanky Panky Challenge



The Hanky Panky challenge is for married couples to engage in some kind of hanky panky everyday for the entire month of February. Now, I looked up the definition of “hanky panky” and it was not the definition I was hoping for … so I thought I should clarify what I mean by hanky panky.

THE HANKY PANKY CHALLENGE

Here is what I have learned over the years of issuing this "Hanky Panky Challenge" ... for the guys it means one thing, and for the girls it may mean yet another, so let this blog be your guide. We are encouraging married couples to take the month of February to focus on their marriage by creating moments of intentional intimacy “hanky panky” with each other everyday, a total of 28 days. It's a challenge in itself just making time to connect everyday! So whether you connect for purely sexual intimacy (intercourse - hopefully no diagrams are needed here) which most dudes are probably hoping for – you are welcome guys!, or lots of kissing, touching, tickling, loving massages, foot rubs, hand massages, taking a bath together while listening to soft Jazz, washing each others hair, pillow talk, praying together (for each other and your family), read the book of the Bible entitled Song of Songs, reading a romantic book together, watch Dr. Phil – sorry, just kidding … watching a romantic movie (not Texas Chainsaw), cooking dinner together, talking a walk together, write a meaningful note to one another and read aloud, go on a romantic date … basically go back to what you did when you first met and fell so madly in love with each other! (I realize that was a massive run-on sentence!)

Side note here; many times this is what I see failing in marriages; everything that I have mentioned above is many times absent after a year of marriage. Simply, we take each other for granted, we are too busy (or we feel we are too busy). Yet when I talk to couples about their schedule I see that there are many many opportunities in their “busy schedule” for intimacy, but it’s filled up with TV, Sports, Hobbies, Kids stuff, facebook, and just a lot of worthless busy-work.

So there it is, the Hanky Panky Challenge ... I hope you take the challenge and comment here on this post or on my facebook ... oh yea, by the way ... I promise at the end of the 28 days your relationship with be better than ever!

I will blog more … I just had to rush to get something up here so if you heard something on TV or Radio you’ll know what it is all about!

Happy Hanky Panky!

10 Leadership Secrets of Timmy Gibson

1) Be true to yourself only if you are aligned with who God made you to be.

2) Pick your friends very carefully because they play a huge role in your life.

3) Be concerned with how your decision will effect others.

4) Always get both sides of the story.

5) Talk after you think.

6) Doing the right thing is always right.

7) Doing the wrong thing is always wrong.

8) Always listen to those you lead.

9) A wife will make or break you.

10) You never lose putting God first.

S.O.A.P Prayer Guide

What is S.O.A.P.?
 
S.O.A.P. stands for Scripture, Observation, Application and Prayer. It is a way of getting more out of your time in God's word. I did not invent it; I just decided to post it here to help you in your prayer life.

How does it work?
 
It's quite simple. When you sit for your daily quiet time read the bible as you normally would with one simple difference. Underline or make note of any verses that jump out at you with special significance. This is the basis for diving deeper and using S.O.A.P.

Now comes the cool part. Login and create a new SOAP entry. There are four fields to fill in and I bet you can guess what they are:

 Scripture Type in the verse or verses that stuck out to you in your reading. You can show the verses and even have them read to you with the click of a button. No copying and pasting blocks of text.

 Observation What did you observe about the scripture that struck you. This can be one sentence or a whole book.

 Application How can you apply the observation so that it affects your life today.

 Prayer Write out a prayer to God based on what you just learned and ask him to help you apply this truth in your life.

Close the Gap

2 Corinthians 3:18 "So all of us who have had that veil removed can see and reflect the glory of the Lord. And the Lord--who is the Spirit--makes us more and more like him as we are changed into his glorious image."

Let's be honest here, you read a scripture like that and think; "what does that mean?" At least I do. But it's actually pretty simple really when you break it down. First the veil is the veil of disobedience, or the veil of not having a teachable spirit ... and when that is removed we want to do right, it's not so much a discipline as much as it is something that flows from who we are, rather then something we must make ourselves do. I have felt for sometime now that Christianity isn't about "DOING" as much as it is about "BEING."

And as the veil is removed we do indeed become like Him, and as that happens we close the gap between WHO WE ARE and WHO WE WANT TO BE. All of us suffer from the GAP disease. And I personal beleive that that the bigger the GAP the bigger the unhappiness in our lives.

So let's CLOSE THE GAP in 2011!



Do Over


Matthew 5:6 “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.”

I really do not know where to begin! If I am truly being open and vulnerable 2010 was a challenging year for Mercy Church. We changed our location, had big staff changes - nothing bad, simply staff moving away or staff taking a new role within the church and new staff coming in to replace those who left. We had major budget changes as well because of the move and the economic down-turn our nation is facing. Not including all the things going on in our community with businesses closing, job loss, foreclosures, and people filing for bankruptcy … all within the Mercy Church family. As well as all the personal struggles that went on with …anxiety, depression, divorce, drug addiction, loss of family … etc. etc. Tough year for a lot of people, and when people in Mercy Church hurt or suffer, we all suffer.

The good news is, WE MADE IT! And I believe we are stronger for it! What is it they say, “Tough times never last but tough people do!” That’s Mercy Church for ya … we are tough! In the midst of all that yucky stuff we were still able to provide Christmas for 150 underprivileged children in third world countries, help plant 15 life-giving churches throughout the United States, provide 36 children with a coat for the winter, serve over a 100 homeless down at the soup kitchen, provide much needed supplies to the Safe House for battered women and children, provide hundreds of dollars in groceries cards and gas cards for those struggling right here in our own church family. And that’s just what I am pulling off the top of my head … we are a giving church because you are a giving people! Thank you!  

I always get excited at the end of a year because there is something about a New Year that brings a new hope, a new expectation, a fresh start … a place to start over … it’s time for a “do-over,” as we used to say as children when we didn’t get the kick we wanted in kickball. Even as adults we look around and want to call for a do-over now and again. I know I do! And I take advantage of the New Year with renewed hope, renewed vision, re-establishing lost habits, committing to do the things I know I should do! I hope you to will take advantage of the New Year to do the same.

I want to close with saying that I am stirred in the depth of my soul for what God is doing, and what He will continue to do through Mercy Church and those who call Mercy home. I believe that with change comes the opportunity for growth, improvement, and progress and that is just what I am expecting in 2011! I hope you will participate!

Please join me in praying for 3 things for Mercy Church this year:

1)      Renewed Passion for Christ and His message of Hope.
2)      A hunger and commitment to help hurting people.
3)      Finding a place to call home. (a permanent facility)

Ephesians 3:14-21 “For this reason I kneel before the Father, from whom his whole family in heaven and on earth derives its name. I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge–that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.”

2011 Life Journal

I highly recommend getting the LIFE JOURNAL as a way to help with your spiritual growth. I feel this is one of the best tools available on the market today to not only encourage daily Bible reading but also to record your daily reflections of what you have read.

Let's just be honest, without a system, or tool to help we often start out reading the Bible in January and by February we have fallen behind and by March we've stopped reading all together!

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FOURTH SUNDAY OF ADVENT - PEACE


FOURTH WEEK THEME: PEACE

Sunday, December 18, 2010: Light the four candles on your wreath and read together the following meditation:

FIRST READER: This is the fourth Sunday in Advent. Today, we light the four purple candles (OR three purple candles and the pink candle). The first Sunday, we lit the candle of hope. The second Sunday, we lit the candle of love. The third Sunday, we lit the candle of joy. Today, we light the candle of peace. Our world is not always a peaceful world. People hurt other people. Countries are at war today. People don't take care of the world. People yell and scream at other people. But God promises peace. During Advent we pray that we, as well as all people, will seek God's peace.

(Light the first, second, third, and fourth candles.)


SECOND READER: When we look at the fourth candle, we remember God's promise of peace. We recall the words of Jesus in John 14:27, "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you." In times of war and hatred it's hard to remember that Jesus is the one who brings peace. As we approach Christmas let's remember that God's intention is a place of peace where people shake hands instead of harm one another.

FIRST READER: Read Luke 2:1-20  

SECOND READER: The shepherds may have not felt very peaceful when they heard the words of the angel. They were probably scared and confused, but they followed those words, trusting in God. Sometimes all we see around us gives a message different from the message of peace. Yet we, like the shepherds, can follow God's words and trust in God's promises.

DISCUSSION: This Scripture reminds us that when we are fearful, we are often not thinking of peace. The angels calm the shepherds and send them forward with a task. Who are the people in our world who need God's peace?

What are our hopes for peace in our world today?
How do we help others know God's desire for peace in our world?

PRAYER: Dear God: Thank you for your son, Jesus. Thank you for those in our world today who seek to act for peace. Help us look for ways to be peacemakers at home, at church, and at school. AMEN.

Monday, December 20, 2010: Peace seems so difficult for us to achieve in our world. Read again Luke 2:1-20. Think about what peace would look like in your family, in your congregation, in your community, in our nation, and in the world. Pray a prayer of peace, asking God for what you have envisioned for your family, your congregation, your community, your nation, and the world.

Tuesday, December 21, 2010: Take time to do an act of service today for someone in your home or someone in your community. You might want to make cookies for your postal carrier or take a Christmas card to your neighborhood bank. Perhaps you can call those who work at your church and offer thanks for their service. How does showing we appreciate the service of others bring peace? What acts of peace can you do this day?

Wednesday, December 22, 2010: What do you see or hear in the headlines today? Are there stories of peace? Or are our leaders dealing with violence, hurt, and discord. Today, remember the leaders of our world. Select one leader and pray that this leader will be guided by God's vision of peace.

Thursday, December 23, 2010: Sometimes the closer we get to Christmas, the more frantic we become. This can be particularly true in the last few days before Christmas. Today, take a ten-minute break. Sit quietly. If it helps you to concentrate, look at your Advent wreath. Pray, asking God's help to bring peace to a busy world

Friday, December 24, 2010
 

Christmas Eve
Light the four candles on your wreath. Read together Matthew 1:18-25. We sometimes forget about Joseph. Are there those in your home or community that you might be forgetting? Take a moment to pray for the forgotten people in your home, your church, or your community.

DECEMBER 25 - CHRISTMAS DAY

Saturday, December 25, 2010.
Light the four candles on your wreath, plus the center white candle (which is called the Christ candle) and read together the following meditation:  


FIRST READER: Today is Christmas. Today, we light the four purple candles (OR three purple candles and the pink candle). We also light the center white candle. The first Sunday, we lit the candle of hope. The second Sunday, we lit the candle of love. The third Sunday, we lit the candle of joy. The fourth Sunday, we lit the candle of peace. Today, we also light the center candle. This candle represents Jesus. When we light this candle, we remember Jesus' birth. Our waiting has ended.

(Light the first, second, third, and fourth candles. Light the center white candle.)




SECOND READER: When we look at the center candle, we remember that God sent Jesus to give hope, peace, joy, and love to all people. Outside of Bethlehem, the shepherds saw a great light and heard the voices of angels. They traveled to the manger and saw the baby Jesus.
Far away from Bethlehem, wise men saw a star in the sky. They followed the star and were filled with joy when they found Jesus. They remind us that the gift of Jesus was not just for the people in one place, but for all people.

FIRST READER: Read Matthew 2:1-12

DISCUSSION: It's amazing to think of these persistent travelers who were determined to find Jesus. They traveled with hope and faith in the promise that they would find the new king.
Who are the people in our world who need to know of God's promises?
What are our hopes on this Christmas day for our world?
How can we help people remember God's promises after Christmas Day is over?
Name one thing you are willing to do in the days following Christmas that will help you and others remember God's promises.

PRAYER: Dear God: Thank you for your son, Jesus. Thank you, God, for sending Jesus for ALL people, not just those in one place at one time. On this Christmas Day, help us remember and rejoice again because Jesus was born. May we live every day remembering your love and care and showing that love and care to others. AMEN.

Cure for Holiday Stress

Q: What is the cure for Holiday Stress?
A: Tequila (okay I am only being funny here ... it's just a joke! Lighten up!)

One of my favorite verses in the Bible is so simple, yet profound and even more difficult to live out; 1 Peter 5:7 "Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you." - NLT

I think it's challenging because when we do "give our cares over to God" when often pick them back up soon after giving them to God. It's like that old song, "give your burdens to the Lord and leave it there ... leave it there."

There are many natural ways to deal with stress as well, here are a few:


  • Have a positive attitude. (it's a choice)
  • Try not to worry about things out of your control. (Worry never helps)
  • Problem solve with people around you. Ask them to help you alleviate stress. (Friends)
  • Exercise. A few extra minutes of exercise a day can benefit your overall health. 
  • Stay away from Nasty In-laws (ha ha!)
  • Eat Nutritional food. Decrease the amount of fat and sugar you eat.
  • Meditate (pray,) or take a class in relaxation and stretching techniques.
  • Avoid drinking caffeinated beverages.
  • Rest. Try to get eight hours of sleep each day.
  • Get a massage. A massage can be beneficial for the mind and body.
  • Drink lots of water.
  • Take extra Vitamin C
  • Ever-so-often stop and do a deep breathing exercise.
Have fun, and don't forget the REASON for the SEASON!

Christmas Eve Plaza Lights

PRETTIEST PLACE IN KC FOR CHRISTMAS EVE SERVICE

When:           Friday, December 24, 2010

Where:          Intercontinental Hotel (Top Floor)

Who:             Mercy Church

Time:             6:00pm

Mercy Church and lead Pastor Timmy Gibson would like to cordially invite Kansas City at attend our annual Christmas Eve Service at the prettiest place in Kansas City during the holiday season; from the top floor of the Intercontinental Hotel over-looking the Plaza lights.
                                                                       
The room will be set up so that those attending will be facing the windows over-looking the awe-inspiring Plaza lights! There is no better place to celebrate the real reason for the season in all of Kansas City.

The one hour service will be classy, yet simple and elegant so you will feel comfortable wearing a suit or the ugly Christmas sweater Aunt Edna gave you 3 years ago. The service will be made up of meaningful music, and a heart-warming message to encourage your soul.

Mercy Church (meeting 10 a.m. every Sunday at Indian Hills Middle School, 6400 Mission Rd. Prairie Village, KS - just south of the Plaza 3 miles.) Mercy Church is a church without pretense: Everyone’s welcome; come as you are.


Contact:        Michele Huff
Phone: (913) 390-1200
E-mail: info@mercychurchkc.com