Dependence


As I am studying Luke's Gospel I am becoming very aware of Jesus' total dependence on God's power in His life through prayer ... If I am honest I fall short in this area.

I need to rely more on God's power in and through my life! How about you?

I do find it very interesting that Jesus prayed as much as He did; i suppose He understood the importance of it, and the need for it! We should as well!

Bible Reading Plan - Weeks 16 & 17



Whoops ... sorry to all you faithful Bible-in-a-year readers! My bad ... Easter distracted me! Here it is!

Week 16

April 13
Psalms 56, 120, 140-142

April 14
1 Samuel 25-27

April 15
Psalms 17, 35, 54, 63

April 16
1 Samuel 28-31; Psalms 18; 1 Chronicles 10

April 17
Psalms 121, 123-125, 128-130

April 18
2 Samuel 1-4

April 19
Psalms 6, 8-10, 14, 16, 19, 21

Week 17


April 20
1 Chronicles 1-2

April 21
Psalms 43-45, 49, 84-85, 87

April 22

1 Chronicles 3-5

April 23
Psalms 73, 77-78

April 24
1 Chronicles 6

April 25
Psalms 81, 88, 92-93

April 26
1 Chronicles 7-10

The One Thing


As I reflect on the state of so many marriages in our country I was thinking about the ONE THING that every spouse can bring to the table of their marriage. Not all of us can bring untold fortunes, or fame, or flawless bodies, or a full head of hair, or cottage-free thighs, or the V-shape (men), or the hour glass shape (women), or whatever else it is that we sometimes feel is so important in a relationship. But what we all can bring to the marriage table is LOVE.

Now when I say love I am talking about the God kind of love. We are all capable of giving love to our spouse, but many times we withhold it for various reasons, of course we justify why.

I know in my relationship with Jana, I can't (at least at this time) offer her untold riches or many of the other things I listed above, but what I can do is love her like she's never been loved or ever will be loved.

Are you loving your spouse more that they've ever been loved or ever could be loved?

My little boy (he is 7) asked me as soon as he got in the car after school in his cute little voice today, "Daddy, are you and Mommy ever going to break up?" I said, "well honey what makes you ask that?" He said, "it was in my own head." I assured him that Mommy could never leave me because there isn't anyone on this planet who could treat her as good as I do... this goes both ways.

I am pretty sure his thoughts came from a couple of his friends whose parents have "broken up" and he doesn't want that to happen to us. I understand that completely.

I think that if in all marriage if each spouse would give THE ONE THING they can give; LOVE ... it would make for a happy home!

Disclaimer: This isn't to excuse someone who is not providing financially for their home yet they show love... to me to truly show love IS to provide for your family.

Do Good on Good Friday


We are in the midst of Holy Week, and for those of you who are aware I issued a challenge to the entire city (KC) to "live holy the week of Holy Week" ... and I am not sure how it's working out for you, but I am becoming more aware of my faults honestly! God help me!

As part of the Holy Week Challenge I would like to challenge you to DO SOMETHING GOOD on GOOD FRIDAY.

1) Buy the person's coffee in the line behind you!
2) Give your boss a thank you card (thanking him/her that you have a job)
3) Give your spouse a thank you card (thanking them for staying with you . lol!)
3) Give a card to your kids!
4) Give a card to parents!
5) Give something special to your employees.
6) Say thank you to the cashier, or the person who sacks your groceries, or the person who takes your order ...
7) Give a $1 to a homeless person.
8) Be creative and think of something!

Do something GOOD for GOOD FRIDAY!

Up Until Now


As I was driving to work this morning I thought of all that life has been Up Until Now for me and my family. And I wondered if Up Until Now hasn’t been all that great, or even if it has, what can I do to change it to make From Here On Out better? And would I be willing to make the changes necessary to see something different, something better From Here On Out? I hope so!

I hope so for you too!

Religious Bigotry


Many of you know that I like to tackle the stuff that many stay away from … and frankly it’s not because I am so courageous, I just speak my mind and like to give my perspective on religious issues, good or bad.

So here are my thoughts on Religious Bigotry; it’s a shame for people of faith, especially people of the Christian faith for whom I am apart, to be bigoted as it relates to faith. Christians are to be people of love, grace, mercy … people full of kindness… right? At least that is how I read the Bible. I do not see room for religious bigotry.

Now let me be clear here, I am a Christian and I believe that Jesus is the way the truth and the life and that there is no other way we are made right with God but by the blood of Christ Jesus that was shed on the cross. Okay, I get it; I believe it and I share it! BUT I see many in my own group who are judgmental, and even hateful of those who do not share our tenants of faith … this my friends is religious bigotry and if the truth be told it’s not very Christ like. I believe we should LOVE people into the kingdom of God, not judge them or even scare the hell out of them! That’s so not Jesus!

I’ve never seen a group more divided and even divisive as the “Christian Church” … each group thinking they have the corner market on biblical understanding and divine truth … often bashing other groups because of their “lack of understanding”. Just nuts! I remember this all to well since I was one of these people years ago … thinking that everyone else was wrong and I (of course) and the group I was in (of course) had the FULL unadulterated truth. Religious pride in its grandest form! It’s disgusting!

All this doesn’t mean that we change our beliefs or that we say others are right and we are wrong … I think it’s more an attitude of the heart, a heart of love and compassion towards other people. And don’t we ultimately defeat our enemy by making them our friend? I think so! Also when you get into absolute truth … truth is truth, but how you come to understand and live out that truth is crucial.

For example if my son came to me with a math quiz and he had said that 5 + 6 = 8 I would lovingly instruct him and show him again how mathematics work to help him reach the truth on his own. I wouldn't tell him that his mathematical skills are stupid and he is going to math hell … that wouldn’t help him. I also wouldn't just say – “your wrong, and the answer is 11 … I am right … I know the truth and you don’t.” And here is another thing I would do; I would have him explain to me how he came to the conclusion that 8 was the answer … then we could discuss.

I think religious people often get defensive, argumentative and upset when someone challenges or offers another opinion because they are insecure and can’t really defend their position because they don’t even know WHY they believe what they believe.

Bible Reading Plan - Weeks 13, 14 & 15



Week 13

March 26
Joshua 12-15

March 27
Joshua 16-18

March 28
Joshua 19-21

March 29
Joshua 22-24

Week 14

March 30
Judges 8-9

March 31
Judges 10-12

April 1
Judges 13-15

April 2
Judges 16-18

April 3
Judges 19-21

April 4
Ruth

April 5
1 Samuel 1-3

Week 15

April 6
1 Samuel 4-8

April 7
1 Samuel 9-12

April 8
1 Samuel 13-14

April 9
1 Samuel 15-17

April 10
1 Samuel 18-20 & Psalm 11 and 59

April 11

1 Samuel 21-24

April 12
Psalms 7, 27, 31, 34, 52

Messy


I was thinking today how wonderful it is to be in a messy church rather than in a tighty whitey church where everyone is acting like they are perfect. I attended those kinds of churches when I was younger.

I appreciate our authentic honest culture (and many churches are like this). It’s very freeing. It’s where TRUE FREEDOM happens. “The truth will set you free” … so you can never be FREE when you are hiding or acting like something you are not and lying about who you really are … it’s the truth that frees us! The truth is that we are ALL broken and sinful. And acting like you are not is SINFUL in itself.

There was this one person who was perfect, his name is Jesus … and what is cool about Him and His ministry is that it was MESSY! And the uptight-acting-like-they-are-better-than-everyone-else-religious-pharisees hated Jesus because of it! I love it!

When I say “our church is messy” I mean that our church has real people with real issues in it … and they don’t (some do) hide it. They are who they are! There aren’t many churches where you can be who you are while on your journey of faith. Most churches are attempting to fit you in their little box … their little view of what they think a Christian looks like.

I just got a call today from a couple who want me to perform their wedding because their pastor won’t because they have been married before. That’s ridiculous and is nothing like the Jesus of the Bible. That is some whacked-out form of religion that turns people away from the love of God.

I will end with this story; a woman in our church told me she attended a “membership class” at another church where they asked if you smoked, and she was honest and said “yes”. And because she smoked she was denied membership. How nutty is that! It makes me want to spit! And this wasn’t like something that happened in the 80’s … this was just a few months ago and here in Olathe! Wow!

I could rant and rave here for hours… I will end with this; Jesus said “come unto me ALL ye …” that is you, me, the drug addict, the prostitute, the stripper, the homosexual, the adulterer, the fornicator, the liar, the cheater, the greedy, the lazy, and the religious nut!