If every husband would just go all about in love and service to his wife, I doubt they would complain about not getting any physical lovin from her! Just sayin! Not that that should be the motivation, but it’s true. It’s when we men get selfish that they then begin to get selfish.
I believe in making even small dates just a touch more romantic with something special. Like one time we simply went out for ice cream and I brought-a-long a candle for the table! We had Ice Cream by candlelight! Everyone else wondered where their candle was! Ha ha!
5) Make every day a new day.
I try to make my wife feel loved, like really loved every day! I want her to feel secure in my love for her. Often when she comes home from a Grocery Store run I grab her and hug and kiss her like she was gone for a week and I missed her! It’s easy to do, but also easy not to do.
6) Focus on the good.
It’s easy to find fault in others. Life is too short for that, I believe! There are faults all around us and to focus on them is just miserable! Now, obviously if they are bad you must deal with them, fix them, get help, etc. I am not saying overlook negative behavior! But often we let the little things ruin so much, when the good is so much better than the bad. Make sense?
Adjusting your mindset a bit can help too. Rather than thinking about what ‘they’ need to do to make ‘you’ happy, ask yourself; what can I do to make them happy? And then deliver. I believe that this works best when both are thinking this way about each other! It sucks if only one is doing this! You get tired of giving, giving, giving, when they just take, take, take!