Thoughts Matter

What are you thinking about?

I’ve heard it said that if you dwell on your strengths, your blessings, your goals, and all the people who love you, then you will attract even more blessings, even more love, and even more accomplishments.

I believe this to be true.

I know for me personally when I focus on the bad, the unloving, the dirty, and the unhappy things in this world it makes my life a darker place. Don’t get me wrong, you always have those “bad” things, BUT what do you want to give your time and attention to?

For me I have decided I want to give my attention to the positive, the lovely, the good, the true, the happy… this makes the sun shine brighter in my life! (Philippians 4:8)

I believe:

1) You are what you eat!
2) You become what you think about!

No Lone Ranger

Life is a journey, and I really believe that it's important to journey with others by your side rather then being a "lone ranger".

Here at Olathe Life Fellowship I get to serve on a staff of several talented wonderful people; Brandon Hollis (most gifted musician in the world), Michele Huff (The happiest person in the world), Ralph Testerman (The kindest person in the world), Geoff Lundy (The only guy I know who can do the happy dance while playing guitar well), & Brad Hill (One of the few guys I know who is asking the right questions). I also get to work alongside many other talented volunteer leaders who serve so faithfully.

And on top of those individuals I get to be mentored by other great men who inspire me to fulfill God's purpose in my life! I just met with my mentor today and as always I was challenged, inspired, and encouraged to pursue my journey with passion!

Here is my challenge: Find someone who is ahead of you in ministry, or whatever field you are in, and meet with them several times a year to glean from their wisdom, insight and success. It's truly priceless!

Intergrity

"Integrity is doing the right thing when no one is

looking and also when no one would ever know"

Busy Doing Nothing

Do you run your life, or does your life run you?

Have you ever found yourself sitting down to knock out some emails, or just get some work done and one of your friends send you a funny youtube video... then you look at the clock to only realize you've spent an hour laughing your head off at some funny videos?

I have never done this, but I've had friends who have. (ha! ha!) I think if we are honest this (or something real similar) has happened to all of us at some time or another.

There are times I actually needed the break, and it refreshed me, but most the time I find myself "busy doing nothing" to only get to the end of an 8 hour day having accomplished NOTHING worth anything.

What I try to do: Plan my day, and then work my plan! Then at the end of my day I will have accomplished what I set out to accomplish... rather then another day gone by, busy doing nothing!

Healthy for Life

MEMORY VERSE: 1 Corinthians 6:19 “Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body.” – NLT

The above verse gives us the premise for our March series, Healthy for Life... it's all about honoring God by taking care of ourselves. Typically in churches only the "spiritual" side of life is talked about, but we felt we should cover the physical side as well.

Let's face it, when we are not feeling good we are not able to do or enjoy the life that God has given us to the full extent. Though we can not control everything in life, we can control what we put in our bodies... and it would do us well to give our bodies the best possible fuel we can give it.

The Secret to Health

1) Limit the amount of Fast Food, Canned Food, Processed Food, Salt, Sugar, Cola, Meat and Dairy.

2) Increase Fruit, Vegtables, Grains, Legumes (beans) and Water.

3) Exercise at least 3 times a week.

4) Walk in the fruits of the spirit; love, joy, peace, kindness, etc. (positive thoughts)

Eat to live!

I Want to Look at Porn - pt 2

To live a “Secret Free Life” we must have what many people call “accountability”, I would agree, though that can be real superficial really. You have someone you call and say, “Hey I looked at porn”, then they say, “yea me too…” and that’s as far as it goes. No one is helping anyone. It’s really more of a “justification” partner if you ask me… you simply feel better knowing that you are not the only one messing up.

2 Corinthians 7:10 "For the kind of sorrow God wants us to experience leads us away from sin and results in salvation. There’s no regret for that kind of sorrow. But worldly sorrow, which lacks repentance, results in spiritual death."

There are four things that really help me stay clean:

1) Having a few godly, trustworthy guys to be accountable to (guys that I keep no secrets from… they know everything there is to know about me)

2) Installing X3 Watch on all my computers (http://www.x3watch.com/) – it’s FREE!

3) Pouring myself into my relationship with my *wife. (fortunately I have a wife I keep no secrets from… she is actually one of my x3 Watch accountability partners) *Having a wonderful relationship with your spouse is definitely a huge plus… make it wonderful.

4) Lastly, and most importantly – I press forward in my relationship with God. May sound a little platitudinous, but it works for me.

If you do struggle with porn, tell someone you trust to help you overcome TODAY! Seriously, secrets will destroy you eventually.

I hope this has helped you… let me know.

I Want to Look at Porn - pt 1

Let's be honest here... most guys want to see women naked. There are always exceptions, but for the most part this is true. I have had conversations with pastors and church leaders in the last two weeks that confirm this fact. Not only is this confirmed in their conversations with people in their church, but it's a problem for them as well. There is a struggle going on, especially now that porn is so easily accessible and free. Many men would never darken the door or a strip club, or actually buy a porn magazine… but they will, and do, click on a forbidden picture. It’s scary!

I know most of you wish that it wasn’t so accessible, because that would help you, right? Or you have prayed and asked God to take away the desire? So, what do you do? Who do you tell? You can’t tell your wife because she’ll freak out and think you’re a pervert, or worse, she’ll feel less then enough… (And it is difficult to convince them that it doesn’t have anything to do with them)

So, how can you get free from this darkness? I am a firm believer in NO SECRETS! And when I say that, I really mean that! I’ve heard pastors, or church leaders say that before, but it meant nothing in real life... it was just the right thing to say... but was B.S.! (Which stands for Bologna Sandwich, of course!)

What does it mean to live a “Secret Free Life” really? Here is the good news, you can be free, I promise!

Check back tomorrow for; I want to look at porn – pt 2

Slander

The Bible clearly states that we “who call ourselves Christians” should not slander, or what I like to say is, “speak evil of anyone”.

Titus 3:1 “Remind the people to be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready to do whatever is good, to slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and to show true humility toward all men.”

Q: What exactly is slander?

A: Well according to the Bible, and using my Vines Expository Dictionary of Greek and Hebrew Words; Slander is “finding faults in others, and then spreading that information to others.” Revelations 12:9-11 talks about the devil being a slanderer or an accuser of the brethren.

The unfortunate thing is I have actually heard “teachers/preachers” on the radio who claim to have a corner market on the truth of God’s word. They seem to be (self-acclaimed) the only ones who truly understand the mystery of God’s word, and they are the ones who can properly interpret it. They also slander other teachers (actually naming them!), claiming they are “exposing false teachers”… and the saddest part of all – people believe these slanderous teachers hook-line and sinker! This happened in Jesus day! Jesus was called a blasphemer by the religious crowd! They got Him wrong!

I am not saying I think everything taught by every teacher is right on, nor do I believe everything I read in every book I read… but isn’t that what makes life rich and diverse?

Plus, I give people the benefit of the doubt; I think people are smart enough to know when something is off-base. I just believe that most people are smart!

Unchristian

I read a lot of books, and I honestly like most the books I read, but this one, Unchristian by David Kinnaman is wonderfully insightful. It's been especially helpful for me as a pastor and even as a Christian!

I just started the book a week ago and would say that every pastor should most definately read it, like I would even say it should be required reading for pastors & for all church leaders. All the staff here at OLF are reading it!

In short, Unchristian is all about the perceptions people who are not Christians, and even those who are, have of us "Christians", and the reality is that "its true".

I will put it this way; if you want to truly be a better Christian, then you must read this book, period!

Enjoy!

Fill Your Mind

Luke 8:18a "Therefore consider carefully how you listen."

"Be careful what you listen to, because they become your thoughts, watch your thoughts for they become your words. Watch your words, for they become your actions."

After talking to someone for a few minutes I can tell the voices they listen to, typically. That is not always a bad thing, but it can be when they only listen to one-stream of teaching.

I would encourage you listen and read MANY streams of teaching... if you don't, then you will become unbalanced in your beliefs. I shouldn't have to say this, but I will; I of course don't mean read false doctrine stuff, or whacky stuff... hello! But, definately read stuff that is a stretch for you, or at least stuff that you may not fully agree with... this is what causes growth!

It's like working out, if I only push the weight I have always pushed I will not grow... I must put MORE weight than I am used to on the bar and do exercises I am not used to... this encourages growth!

Grow in God!